Don't Make These Two Mistakes if You Want to Get Back With Your Ex
There are actually two reasons why it's so hard to win back an ex. First, when you're still in love with someone who has called the relationship off, the balance of power is entirely in their favor.
Second, it's just the plain and simple truth that most of us don't have any idea how to get back with an ex. As a result, we tend to waste a lot of time trying to do everything we can think of; and that's where we go wrong.
Be honest with yourself here and acknowledge that it's your ex who holds all the cards here - and they know this as well as you do. If they know you're trying to win them back to your side, they may decide to make you work for it if they're entertaining the idea of a reunion or just take advantage of you with no intention of working things out and starting over.
The way to go if you want to win back an ex is to keep your cool and keep your distance. Don't let anyone you know, especially your ex know that you want to get back together with them.
Some of you reading this may be doing so because you suspect that your partner is thinking about calling it quits and you want to be ready for your next move. When and if it happens, remain calm and let them go - regardless of how much you feel like screaming and pleading for them to stay.
When they've gone, work at keeping yourself busy and occupied with other things that are not centered around your ex and your relationship.
You need to stay away from your ex right now. Don't spend time with them and stay out of the picture as much as you possibly can. If they call, be polite but keep it brief; you need to get across the idea that you have other places to be and people to talk to.
This, of course is the hard part. It's only natural to want to be around your ex and try to do anything you can to prove to them that they need you in their lives; but don't do this, whatever you do!
This is entirely the wrong approach to take. The ex will either become sick of you being around all the time or see you as someone who they can take advantage of. What won't happen is that they'll take you back - this is a trap, so avoid it!
Keep your distance, play it cool and the balance of power will even out, perhaps even shifting to your side. You might just find your ex coming back to you. It's tough, but it's usually the only way to win back an ex.
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